Maybe you’ve been talking with her for some time, and you’d like to move the interaction forward by adding some pepper to it. 

That’s right! In fact, unless you add this spicy touch in your interaction with the girl, you might bore her and get ruthlessly friend-zoned.

Maybe you expect me to give the cliche questions that everybody’s promoting online for years now. However, everybody knows that those DON’T WORK ANYMORE.

What if there are better ways to arouse her over text? In this article, you’ll find 7 brand new questions you can ask her to spice things up.

That’s what you’ll learn in this article, along with what’s outlined below.

In This Article You'll Learn

    7 Flirty Questions to Text Your Crush;
  • The MAIN Reason Why Girls Get Bored Over Text;
  • How to Go From Asking Flirty Questions to a Solid Date;
  • A Powerful Teasing Technique That Works Every Time;
  • Extra bonus tips;
Difficulty: Easy

That will make you a pro both at asking sniper questions and at sparking attraction with girls over text.

Typical Scenario

It's one of those days where you feel confident that things will go well with the girl you like. So you grab your phone and start texting her.

You exchange some lines, and the conversation seems to flow pretty well.

However, after some time, you see that her attention starts to fade away. That's why you think about spicing things up by asking her some intimate questions.

You come up with a: "What's the craziest place where you had sex?" However, you notice that it might be a little uncalibrated per how well you know each other. So you decide to think about another intimate question to ask her.

You start thinking, but you can't come up with anything substantial. That's when you start wondering if you should consult google. That eventually brought you here.

That's Not a Love Story.

Uncalibrated Questions

You know, asking intimate questions to girls has always been something I refrained from doing. That’s because the first time I asked something, I was labeled as a pervert or, worse, unmatched without explanations.  

In fact, those were some of the inappropriate questions I used to ask girls over text:

  1. “What is your kinkiest sexual fantasy?”

  2. “What is your favorite sex position?”

  3. “At what age did you lose your virginity?”

  4. “Does size matter to you?”

I know, that’s a shame, and I didn’t need to get rejected 170+ times to understand this. 

That brought me to reconsider my texting skills and to become more gentle in asking intimate questions.

This was a total game-changer for me. In fact, I managed to get from conversations like this:

[Insert Rejection]

To this:

[Insert Sex Talk]

Wanna know how I did it?

You’ll learn how this story ended in a moment. Before I need to reveal you the powerful questions you should ask your crush to max-out your results.

Flirty Question #1: Do you Like Massages?

That’s one of my favorite teasing lines for many reasons. I love giving massages to hot girls and seeing them close their eyes, relaxing and moaning from pleasure. 

Secondly, that’s a gentle way to start talking about spicy topics without looking like a weirdo or a maniac.

As you can see from the example below, girls like that kind of line most of the time.

[Insert Picture]

Transitioning from this to the topic of “getting or giving massages” will usually be a natural consequence. 

Have fun with it and if she likes massages, don’t forget to bring some oil!

Flirty Question #2: Are You Always That Trouble?

This question will make her go nuts if you ask her at the right time. Why?

Most women love to be considered troublemakers by men, especially from the ones they like. 

This means that if she already likes you and sees that you consider her a trouble maker, she’ll probably do things that will confirm this idea you have. 

Those things might include being elusive like a cat and, of course, naughty when it comes to more personal stuff. 

Psychologically, the word trouble will trigger in her that “trouble” instinct can quickly turn into sex topics, as you can see from the example below.

[Insert Pic]

I think she’s real trouble.

7 Flirty Questions to Ask Your Crush Over Text (With Real Examples)

Logan Paul

So most girls I date - actually, all of them - say this. Every girl I end up dating, there's like a couple things. One, they hate me at first.

Hate & love are faces of the same coin after all.

Flirty Question #3: Where is Your Favorite Part to Be Kissed?

That sounds so teasing that it will probably make a massacre of hearts. Girls’ bodies (and hearts) are much more sensitive than those of men. 

That’s why romantic lines like this always work when teasing her. Look at the example below.

[Insert Photo]

That can be the result when you tease a girl like this. This line is great because if she starts to talk about such intimate stuff, escalating to sexual topics will be as easy as drinking water.

She might also ask you what’s your favorite part of kissing a girl, so be ready to answer promptly. 

If I only knew about the next questions, I’d have been much more successful in arousing the girls I liked. 

7 Flirty Questions to Ask Your Crush Over Text (With Real Examples)

Flirty Question #4: Are You Trying to Tease me Bad Girl?

Something pushier for those girls that like being teased like a cat with a yarn ball. 

For that reason, I suggest you use this question when you feel you’ve sparked enough attraction and you’re getting closer to the sexualization phase.

The reason is that if this works, then you’ll immediately get her sexual approval, and your conversation will look something like this pretty soon.

[Insert convo]

If she’s not ready to cross those topics yet, you might get a brutal rejection like in this case.

[insert pic]

That’s why you must use this line at your own risk. High risk, high reward!

Also girls like teasing boys. Leverage that to your advantage.

Flirty Question #5: What’s the Weirdest Thing That Turns You On?

That’s another intimate line that will work once you’ll already be in the sex topic sphere. Imagine she’s talking about her hobbies and you answer her this question.

[Insert Convo]

You can see that this looks very inappropriate. However, what if you’re already talking spicy stuff and want to add more pepper to the conversation?

[Insert pic]

Your results will be much more powerful.

Flirty Question #6: Do You Like More Giving Or Receiving?

This teasing question is powerful because of the double meaning contained in it. Indeed it will make girls think if you’re talking about sex or something else.

This misinterpretation game will make your conversation more exciting, teasing, and open to intimate scenarios.

When you ask this question, you’ll generally get those kinds of answers:

[Insert pic]

The best answer to give her is not to keep things secret anymore and go directly into the hot topics. 

If she likes you, she’ll feel more attracted to you because she’ll see that you are confident about expressing yourself.

Tell her if you like more giving or receiving and discover what she likes. You’ll already know if your banana will get lucky.

Now it’s time for the last questions and tips, those will make you a pro at teasing your crush over text.

Flirty Question #7: Would You Like To Know How I Feel About You?

This teasing line can be really powerful as it will leverage on the natural curiosity that all women have.

In fact, every woman, even the ones that DO NOT like you, will gladly want to know what you think about them. 

That’s because they intuitively know that unless they’re attractive, almost nobody will care about them. 

If she happens to like you, she’ll be enormously interested in knowing how you feel about her. That’s when you can tell her what you find attractive about her. This will turn her on even more and increase the likelihood you’ll sleep with her.

[insert pic]

As you can see, that was a strike.

How to Go From Asking Flirty Questions to a Solid Date

One of the most common questions that I get asked is how to transition from those questions to a solid date.

The answer is very simple, and you must follow the 3 steps outlined below:

  1. Tease Her;

  2. Sexualize the Conversation;

  3. Close.

It’s fundamental that you proceed with this exact order if you want to maximize your chances of getting a date with her. Let’s see how together:

1: Tease Her

That’s the phase you should be in after asking her those questions.

When you feel the temperature is high enough, you can move out to from this phase ae and go directly into sex topics.

2: Sexualize the Conversation

In this phase, you can express and make her tell everything about your sex fantasies and preferences. This phase consists mainly of making her imagine how having sex with you will be.

Remember not to go overboard with this phase, or you’ll make her bored. That’s when you must move things forward by closing her to a date.

3: Close

Finally, when you had a pleasant hot conversation, you can finally invite her for a drink or directly to your place if she’s comfortable enough with it. 

This time, don’t tease her back or talk about sex. The previous conversations needed to occur exactly to bring you to this phase.

In the end, you must see her in person, so invite her out and enjoy your date with her.

How The Story Ended

Being Bold Works

In the end, I realized that two main elements were impairing my results with girls:

  1. Context

  2. Calibration


In this case, my main mistakes came from asking the right questions at the wrong time.


In this other case, I was asking the wrong questions at the right time.

By having those two elements off balance, I pushed girls to reject me. However, when I started to acknowledge the state of mind women were into and knowing the right questions to ask, my results skyrocketed. 

You can do the same as well by fixing those two simple elements.

Bonus Tip!

Bait her like a deer, she'll like it afterwards.

Bonus Tip: Teasing Your Crush Like a Pro

What’s the difference between asking a girl those sets of questions and teasing her? None.

However, there are better ways to tease a girl over text apart from asking those questions.

One powerful way to do this is by baiting her to talk to you about sex.

The bait entry is one of the most powerful sex topic entries ever as I teach in my Integral Text Game Course.

In fact, it leverages the girl’s natural curiosity to know more to bait her into a sexual topic.

What is an example of a bait entry? 

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As you can see from the screenshot above, I brought her in by talking about something related to sex but not so explicitly.

This created a buildup of tension in her that eventually couldn’t be held anymore.

That’s what made me progress the interaction until I closed her to a solid date.

Wizard Takeaway

Women like men that are confident at expressing their will. Be bold and you’ll be rewarded with admiration.

Now you know how to ask flirty questions like a pro.

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