Probably you want to go from this kind of conversation:

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To this

[Insert Good Version]

I understand. It’s your right to get a pleasurable “good morning” text message from a girl you flirt with.

However, unless you learn how to make her want to text you, you’ll always be ignored like the side advertisements you see on Facebook.

In this article, I won’t tell you the clichè solutions you usually find online. In fact, what if there are better ways to make her want to text you first.

That’s what you’ll learn in this article, along with what’s outlined below.

In This Article You'll Learn

    5 Reason Why She Doesn’t Text You First;
  • 3 Proven Strategies to Make Her Always Text You First;
  • 3 Powerful Lines to Send Her When She Doesn’t Text Back;
  • 1 Copy-Paste Lines to Tease Her Over Text;
  • Extra bonus tips;
Difficulty: Easy

That will help you get an answer back even if you’re the king of texting girls first.

Typical Scenario

It's already a long time you've been texting that girl you like so much first. However, today you have enough of this, and so you decide to make her text you.

You wait all morning, and she doesn't text you.

The afternoon has passed, no message yet.

It's already midnight, and it seems like she has forgotten you.

That makes you realize that unless you text her first the next morning, you're not going to hear from her. 

"Can it always be like that?" That's what you think.

"It's time to make her text me as well," you Realize.

That brought to your search until you got here reading this article.

That's Not a Love Story.

I Always Used to Text Girls

I went through the same patterns before, mostly when I wasn’t aware of what made women click over text. 

In fact, it was as if a feeling stronger than my will pushed me towards texting girls first, even if they weren’t behaving the same way.

I didn’t know what that feeling until I investigated deeply into my mind and into women’s psychology. 

That took me months to figure out. However, I came to many solutions that now make girls text me first in most cases.

Moreover, I also learned an important life lesson.

You’ll learn about this in a moment. Now it’s time to talk about the reasons why girls don’t text you first.

Important Note: Read the article carefully; there’s a special attraction tip hidden inside.

No Text First Reason #1: She Has an Inflated Ego

Unfortunately, it’s not your fault most of the time if a girl doesn’t text you first. I say unfortunately because if it was something under your control, you could fix it. 

However, most girls are not mature enough to understand that the game is played in two in a relationship. 

Since most girls believe to be the princesses of the world, they’ll always expect a man to text them first. 

They will endure until they find a real man who doesn’t care about their beliefs and rejects them as quickly as rejecting the girl below.

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That’s why if you’re texting with this type of girl, there’s not much you can do apart from stopping answering her every day. She’s not probably going to change; however, trying doesn’t kill anybody, so give it a go!

Below I’m going to share with you some strategies that will make her text you first. Those might also work on the case we just spoke about.

Why Does a Girl Never Texts First? Discover the 5 Most Plausible Reasons

Billie Holiday

A kiss that is never tasted, is forever and ever wasted.

Sublime like a good glass of wine.

3 Proven Strategies to Make Her Always Text You First

With the 3 strategies below, she’ll be more inspired to text you first, even if she didn’t do so until now.

Text First Strategy #1: Night Conversation Cuts

One way to make her text you first is to do conversation cuts. This can be done by sending her the last message during the night when she’s already asleep. 

That way, she’ll find your message when she wakes up and will answer you in the morning, getting back to you first.

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That will give the impression that she’s the one texting you first in the day (that’s actually what happens). This will subconsciously train her to write you in the very morning as that’s what she’ll get used to doing.

If you do this long enough, she’ll get into the habit in roughly 2-3 weeks.

Text First Strategy #2: Mystery 

Another way to make her text you back first is by dropping a mystery element in the middle of your conversations.

Let’s say you’re talking with her about travels. At a certain point, you tell her this:

“Hey, I have to tell you something later.” 

Then you keep talking about your topic as you’ve always been doing.

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Since girls are very sensitive to curiosity baits, she’ll most likely come back to you to know what you have to tell her.

Text First Strategy #3: Real Value

Finally, the last strategy to apply is providing her with authentic value. 

In the end, that’s what girls want from a man. So if you can give the girl you’re talking to exactly what she wants from you, then she’ll be more attracted to you. 

This will make her chase you more, thus text you more, very likely test you first.

If I only knew those upcoming reasons I would have gotten much better results with girls in the past. 

Why Does a Girl Never Texts First? Discover the 5 Most Plausible Reasons

No Text First Reason #2: She Wants to Test You

Another common reason why girls never text first is that they like testing men. 

What do they actually test?

They want to see how needy you are with them. 


Because neediness is the #1 factor repelling women.

If you’re always needy when interacting with girls, they’ll perceive it as a weakness and will lose attraction towards you.

This means that one reason why she’s not texting you first is that she wants to see if you’ll ever withdraw, so to make her text you first. 

In a few words, that’s an implicit invitation from her to withdraw and make her chase.


Because women like to chase men and not men that chase them.

If you believe in finding yourself in this situation, never text her first for 2-3 days and see if she complies. If she doesn’t, it could be because of one of the other reasons I’m about to explain to you below.

Women will always test you. make Peace with that.

No Text First Reason #3: She’s Not Interested Enough

Unfortunately, my friend, that can be another common reason why she doesn't text you back. 

I know this can be painful, and it hurt me, too, when I understood it. Indeed I was bringing forward interactions with girls that had no intention to do anything long term with me.

This made me understand that I was just wasting my time and that it would have been much better to invest it with girls interested in me. 

After all, if a girl really wants you, she'll make an effort to reach out to you, even 1 time out of 10. However, if she doesn't even do that one thing, it's pointless to even try. Save your time and invest it more wisely.

3 Powerful Lines to Send Her When She Doesn’t Text Back

What can you do when she doesn't text back?

By sending her the lines below, you'll increase your chances of getting a reply.

Text Back Line #1:

 "If you answer me before I get married, you win a teddy bear."

Giving her some pressure is never a bad idea.

Text Back Line #2:

"Sometimes I don't answer girls too. That must be karma!"

Karma exists. That's the proof.

Text Back Line #3:

"As my grandma said, silence is the best answer sometimes!"

Grandmas are always right. No mistake about it.

Now it’s time for the last reasons that will get your mind clear on why girls might stop answering you back.

No Text First Reason #4: Cultural Expectations

As I teach in my Integral Text Game Course, another thing that might influence her texting behavior is her cultural expectations. 

If she was raised believing that men should always make the first move, be sure that she won’t text you first all the time. Unless you want to spend time to re-educate her.

Sometimes cultural programming can be so strong that girls will behave in a certain way unconsciously. It’s not her fault if you believe she’s doing this under her cultural influence. 

However, if that’s the case, you can tell her explicitly that you’d like her to text you first from time to time. If she’s mature enough, she’ll understand and meet you halfway.

No Text First Reason #5: Insecurity Issues

Finally, some girls are too insecure about contacting a guy first, even if they like him. I found this case to be very common, even if that’s the hardest to pinpoint. 

The reason is that insecure women will try to look confident, making it hard to understand what’s going on at first glance. 

However, if you can dig deeper on many of them, you’ll realize that insecurity is a prime them amongst a big chunk; more than 20%, I’d say. 

That’s why this can be a pretty normal case where you might find yourself.

In that case, to make her text you first, tell her that you like her a lot and make her feel accepted, wanted, and desired. This will make it easier for her to open up with you, and you’ll enjoy much better interactions.

How The Story Ended

Value = Success

In the end, I realized that the most important thing to make girls answer me back was providing them value. 

If I only focussed on giving them what they wanted, I saw that their texting frequency increased until they started to look for me even when I didn’t talk to them for days or weeks.

Dating is like a business. If you provide authentic value to your customers, they will be happy and come back.

Bonus Tip!

If you tease girls Appropriately, their attraction towards you will skyrocket.

1 Copy-Paste Line to Tease Her Over Text

Ever wondered how to tease a girl over text?

That’s going to be a game-changer move if you want her to text you first every day. 

Learning how to tease girls is super important because you’ll be able to spark emotions in her and stimulate her much more than the average guy.

That’s when she’ll gladly start a convo with you, online and live. 

The line below is so powerful that you could really get girls wet by using it at the right time with the right one.

The Teasing Line

You: “Stop doing this” 

Her: “What?”

You: “There’s something I like about you, but I don’t know what that is.”

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As you can see, there’s so much tension in this conversation. This line is very powerful because it creates anticipation with the first one you drop. 

When she asks you what you’re talking about, you release the tension created by the first lie but keep other tension with your response.

That’s going to make her go crazy. My promise. 

Wizard Takeaway

Girls are strange creatures. However if you understand where they’re coming from, you can relate better to them.

Now you know why she doesn’t text you first.

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