Probably you want her to be impressed by you and to desire meeting you in person.
I understand. In fact, that’s precisely what you should do if you want to get her on a date with you.
However, unless you learn what women want to hear on Tinder, she’ll go on a date with the next guy that knows how to touch all of her chords.
In this article, I won’t teach you dumb copy-paste lines that make you look good on the outside but don’t actually show the depth of who you are when meeting girls live.
Instead, you’ll learn 3 powerful mindset principles that will make you say the right things every time you talk to a girl.
What if there are better ways to make her want you than just dropping some copy-paste lines?
That’s what you’ll learn in this article, and much more, as you can see below.
In This Article You'll Learn
What you’re about to learn will help you say the right things even with the most snob girls on Tinder, including GILF's.
It's one of those days when you feel like talking to a girl on Tinder.
You start your conversations with some of them, and they proceed well for some time.
However, after a bit, you notice that most of those conversations die off without explanation.
That makes you think that it's probably time to learn a couple of tricks to talk to girls in the right way.
That's Not a Love Story
Not Knowing What to Say
I was the classic guy who didn’t know what to say to girls on Tinder.
I limited my conversations to the typical topics of music, travels, hobbies, and so on.
However, I didn’t understand how to make those conversations spicy and interesting for most girls.
This made me understand that I probably had to learn other ways to make them enjoy talking to me.
This brought me to my journey of texting improvement. I started reading books about female psychology, began experimenting with different ways of talking to girls, and waited for the results to come.
At first, I didn’t succeed much. In fact, girls responded to me almost as before. However, as weeks passed, I started to see some patterns that made women click, no matter what.
That’s what I want to share with you today, my friend.
You’ll learn how this story ended in a moment, now it’s time to go on with the mindset principles that will make you succeed with girls on Tinder.
Important Note: Read the article carefully; there’s a special attraction tip hidden inside.
What to Say on Tinder #1: Tease Her
The first thing to do with a new girl you haven’t spoken to before is making her feel strong emotions. That’s because girls are emotional creatures, and as such, they need to feel something when they talk to a potential partner.
Girls crave to be brought into an emotional roller coaster consistently. That’s why most like to stay around exciting guys that have something going on in their lives.
Even if this is what usually happens in person, the Tinder game requires you to make women feel the same emotions even through a phone.
How can you do this?
It’s very simple. Indeed all you have to start with is the tease.
When you successfully tease a girl over text, she will feel more attracted to you because of the energy created by her emotional responses.
Consequently, you won’t run out of things to say because the emotions you will make her feel will prompt her to take out the topics.
You’ll just need to flow with the conversation until you bring her on a date. In a moment, you’ll learn how to move from the teasing stage to the next one that will serve to connect with her.
Before we do that, you should know what’s the single thing girls want to hear from you on Tinder.
I've been in plenty of situations where someone I'm dating had more time for a console than me.
When playing video games is too much.
The Single Thing Girls Want To Hear From You
Every girl is different. This means that she’ll have different tastes when choosing a man’s look, personality, and lifestyle.
However, girls have one thing in common.
She wants to be considered unique by the man she likes.
That’s because girls are wired differently than we men. Since their whole bodies are created to choose the best possible male to be impregnated by, they won’t be as polygamous as we tend to be.
In fact, during ancestral times, the most fertile girls were impregnated by alpha males that were the strongest in the tribes.
While those alphas could have many children from different women (since this didn’t bear them huge costs), women had to be careful by whom to be fecundated.
In fact, women need to bear a child for 9 months, risking death when giving birth to it. For them, sex has then always been an important step to take.
However, men didn’t lose health or anything else by making a girl pregnant. That’s why men usually tend to be more polygamous.
Considering this, it’s expected that a girl wants to be told to be unique. This will signal her that the man is committed to taking care of her and not impregnate another woman, leaving the first one without resources or attention.
That’s why if she likes you, tell her that she’s special.
We’re just scratching the surface here. In a moment you’ll learn more about what to say to a girl on Tinder.
What to Say on Tinder #2: Connect with Her
Now that you sparked emotions in the girl, she’ll be much more open to connect with you and get to know you better.
That’s the case because girls need to feel an emotional comfort to their man apart from attraction to want to sleep with him.
So if teasing is directly proportional to attraction, the connection will be directly proportional to how comfortable she’ll feel with you.
How can you create comfort with a girl?
Follow the tips below for maximum results:
- Find Commonalities
- Share Personal Stories
- Understand Her Values
1: Find Commonalities
One of the best ways to connect with a girl on Tinder is finding out what common interests, hobbies, and passions you have.
This will make you come closer together because building rapport is an essential psychological practice to follow to let you bond with a girl.
That’s the same that expert salespeople do to connect with their prospects or public speakers do with their audience.
2: Share Personal Stories
Another powerful way to connect with her is by sharing personal stories. In fact, storytelling is another powerful psychological technique that can make two complete strangers come together as if they knew each other for years.
This depends on what stories you tell, of course. You can start by sharing funny stories with each other until you get to deeper ones concerning a more intimate sphere.
3: Understand Her Values
Finally, understanding what’s important in her life will help you talk about topics that she deems important. Those can relate to anything, from fitness, art, health, travels, science, business, and so on.
Every person has his/her own value system. When two people who share the same values come together, a flowing conversation will come as natural as drinking water.
Ensure what values you have in common and only talk about things both you and her care about. That will create a synergy between you and the girl, empowering the whole interaction.
When you are in the comfort stage, you might also feel like complimenting a girl. That’s a perfect time to do it. However, you must know how to compliment a girl over text to be successful in it.
always connect emotionally with a girl you desire to have.
How to Compliment a girl over text
Complimenting a girl over text is easy if you know how to do it. Moreover, it will help you spark even more attraction in her, making it easier to meet her in person.
Every girl is different, and a compliment for one can be seen as an insult from another. That’s why many guys lose their minds when they learn a copy-paste line from somebody successful with a girl. Then they use it with another girl and get brutally rejected as she doesn't like it.
You have to realize that the best compliment a girl can receive is always a personalized one. That’s what will resonate with her core and will make you look as genuinely interested in her.
If you understood what I’m talking about, all good. If you want to learn more about complimenting a girl over text, you can read the article I’ve written here.
Now it’s time for the last tip to bring your interaction to a solid close.
What to Say on Tinder #3: Close
You’ve finally built the right foundations to be a potential candidate for a date. In fact, you sparked emotions in the girl that made her more magnetically attracted to you.
Moreover, you built a strong connection with her, making her feel safe to go out with you. Maybe you even gave her a tailored made compliment so that she knows you’re really into her.
Now that she’s warmed up, there’s one last thing you have to do, and that’s closing her to a date.
How can you do this effectively?
There are many ways to ask a girl out over text. However, my favorite one is hinting at a dating possibility so that things are not as direct and rushed as usual.
A hint to date would usually look like something like this.
As you can see, I’m not explicitly telling her to meet, but by hinting at the idea, I make her imagination go wild until she’s the one that wants to do it too.
That refined idea will make you succeed in closing dates much more often than you can imagine.
And The Story Ends like this
There’s Always Something to Say
In the end, I started to become as interesting as I wanted to be with girls on Tinder, thanks to applying the steps above.
Those ensured me a solid way to have always something to say on Tinder with virtually every girl while also building the foundations for a solid date.
Since I started to apply this framework, my texting skills, enjoyment, and results skyrocketed like a SpaceX launch.
The same can happen to you if you apply this step by step process.
Always sexualize conversation to get the girl to want you.
How to Sexualize Conversations Like A Pro
One of the best ways to make a girl go wild with you is by sexualizing your conversations with her over text.
This means going from a conversation like this:
To one like that.
As you can see, the end result is completely different, and it will most likely end up in you having a sex date with her.
How can you sexualize conversations like a pro?
There are various ways with which you can get into the sex topic with a girl. Here are some of my favorites:
1: The Topic Correlation Entry
A topic correlation entry occurs when you’re talking about something that’s strictly correlated to sex. For example, shifting from a conversation about going to the SPA to a sexual one is very easy.
Look at this example.
As you can see, I purposely lead the conversation where it could get spicier.
You can do this starting from other topics, of course, like:
Let your imagination fly, and you’ll be good to go.
2: The Narrative Entry
As I teach in my Integral Text Game Course, the narrative entry occurs when you and she decide to play a character role. For example, you can play the doctor while she does the nurse.
After talking about it, close her to date as if those two characters would need to play intimately with each other like in the example below.
As you can see, that can be a super smooth and funny way to get into the sex topic with a girl.
3: The Direct Entry
Finally, you can use the classical direct entry where you talk about sex topics right away.
Do this if you feel you’ve built enough comfort with her, or it might not work out! In fact, she might think you’re simply a pervert and reject you ruthlessly.
There’s always something to talk about with a girl. You just have to find out what resonates with her.
Now you know how what to say to a girl on Tinder.
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