Probably you want to have fun conversations with the girls you like. It’s understandable to want this; after all, that’s what they want too.

However, unless you know how to text like an interesting man, she’ll probably get bored and reject you for a guy with better skills. 

In this article, you won’t find the typical advice telling you to make her laugh over text or to talk about music, movies, and what’s her favorite color.

What if there are better ways to talk to a girl on Tinder?

That’s what you’ll learn in this article, and much more, as you can see below. 

In This Article You'll Learn

    5 Topics to Have Interesting Convos;
  • The Single Reason Why Girls Stop Answering You;
  • 3 Copy-Paste Lines to Send Her when She Disappears;
  • How to Make a Girl Laugh Over Text;
  • Extra bonus tips;
Difficulty: Easy

What you’re about to learn will help you have interesting conversations even if girls called you boring 200+ times (like they did with me).

Typical Scenario

It's one of those days when you want to have pleasant conversations on Tinder. You log into the app and find out that you have new matches waiting for you to start a conversation with them.

You drop one of your favorite Tinder openers, and she replies immediately as predicted. However, after some time you talk to her, you exhausted your topics. The conversation stagnates, making your desire to date that girl fade away.

That's when you realize that you should probably learn how to talk to a girl over text. After all, texting has become so indispensable nowadays that in one way or another, you'll have to learn how to text a girl to have a real date.

That's Not a Love Story

Stagnant Convos

That same thing occurred to me. In fact, I didn’t know what to talk to girls, that is how a typical convo looked.

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I realized that I was losing dates, intimate opportunities, and much more by not knowing what to talk about on Tinder.

That pushed me to go on a text improvement journey that would change how I related to girls once forever. 

So I went out in social spaces, clubs, and bars to hear what successful men talked about with girls. Then I recorded the best of my cold approaching sets, starting to notice what made those conversations funnier and more engaging to girls.

After a few months of practice, I noticed that some patterns started to emerge from my conversations.

That’s when I had found out something relevant. Moreover, I had discovered a critical attraction principle that makes almost every girl fall for a man.

However now it’s time to talk about those hot topics to make your conversations as interesting as Fifty Shades of Grey.

Important Note: Read the article carefully; there’s a special attraction tip hidden inside.

Tinder Topic #1: Storytelling

Have you ever heard that storytelling can lead to love? 

Many scientific studies have proven how telling each other’s stories can create stronger bonds between people.

This also works in the dating world and is one of the most incredible moves you can make to have exciting conversations.

The next time you chat with a girl you like, take a moment to share something personal with her. 

You can also ask her to tell you something about her, maybe about the best trip she ever had.

I usually tell girls the craziest stories of my life, like when I got lost in San Francisco. Or when I was left broke with only $10 in my pocket when working as a salesperson in Ibiza.

Please make a list of the most compelling stories you have to tell and share them with the girls next time.

The Single Reason Why Girls Stop Answering

Do you have a clue why girls stop answering men?

Most of the time, the main reason is that a man is too needy or bores her to the bone while texting.

If you want to make sure that girls answer you, you must adopt certain writing attitudes, including:

  1. Teasing her

  2. Making her laugh

  3. Complimenting her

Girls love being teased because that will give them the chills they need to feel alive.

Then girls just want to have fun, as you know, that’s why you have to learn how to make a girl laugh over text.

Finally, giving her the compliments she deserves will make her feel desired. This will avoid that she ghosts you over text.

What to Talk About on Tinder: 5 Hot Topics Girls Always Love

Ben Savage

I think a nice romantic dinner should be saved for when you and the girl you're dating or seeing have something special and it's a more special occasion.

Savage thought.

Tinder Topic #2: Intimate Topics

Another great thing to talk about with a girl is topics related to the intimate sphere.

I understood this by approaching girls after girls in person. 

When I talked about platonic stuff, I didn’t manage to grab their attention and create pleasure in the conversation as when spicing things up.

Talking about intimate topics includes, and it’s not exclusive to:

  1. What she’s looking for romantically speaking

  2. What she likes in a man

  3. Intimate fun adventures

Those are usually the topics one talks about when in the intimate sphere. 

The good thing is that you can bring the same level of communication on Tinder.

All you have to do is connect with her by asking the right questions. The rest will come by itself.

We’re just scratching the surface here. Soon you’ll find out other topics to talk about on Tinder. 

What to Talk About on Tinder: 5 Hot Topics Girls Always Love

Tinder Topic #3: Her Values

Not every man is aware that every girl is different and has her own set of preferences, interests, and values.

That’s why many of them try to impose their ideas, topics on women’s ones that, most of the time, aren’t receptive to them.

Getting to know a girl’s values is essential to know which topics to talk about and where to move the conversation when it’s dying out.

That’s why if you want to make sure to hit the perfect topic for each girl you’ll be talking to, ask her what’s essential for her in life. 

When you know this, everything else will be secondary to your communication arsenal, apart from sex topics, of course, when the time requires them.

Values can be of many forms and genres. Every person, not only girls, have their set of core values. 

Some examples of values are:

  1. Success

  2. Freedom

  3. Passion

  4. Love

  5. Health

  6. Family

  7. Strength

  8. Intelligence

  9. Power

  10. Flexibility

  11. Balance

  12. Dynamism

  13. Perfectionism

  14. Rationality

  15. Sensitivity

There are many more than those; however, this list is just to provide an example.

What are your values?

Did you know that if you know your values well, you can make faster decisions in life? This also happens in your dating life.

That’s why I invite you to have a look at what’s vital for you. That way, you’ll also be able to have more pleasant conversations.

Otherwise, she might disappear from the scene since girls ghost guys for many reasons, as I explain in this article

But what if that happens? Below are three copy-paste lines that you can use with her anytime she’ll ghost you.

Spot her values and deliver what she wants.

3 Copy-Paste Lines to Send Her when She Disappears

#1: “You disappeared. Well, at least you didn’t unmatch me.”

That's a funny line that will make her see that you didn't take the non-reply too much personally. 

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She liked it, and the conversation moved forward much more spontaneously. 

#2: "What's the best way to get an answer back when a girl ignores you?" 

This is a funny yet teasing reply as it refers to her not having answered you, of course. That will probably spark emotions in her and make her want to provide you with an answer. Useful to discover why she disappeared!

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Now I know why she went away.

#3: “Sometimes I don’t answer girls too. That must be Karma!”

Another funny line that will make many girls laugh and feel empathy towards you.


Because according to this research, more than 65% of people usually believe in Karma. If we only limit the statistics to girls, then they will be even higher, of course.

Tinder Topic #4: Hobbies & Passions

Let's move on to one of the most typical topics to talk about with a girl.

As cliché as it might sound, those are great topics to cross when talking with a girl, especially online.

On Tinder, it's so easy to keep a conversation based on a girl's hobbies and passions.

All you need to succeed is looking at some of her pictures and dropping some comments, like in the case below.

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That's when things will start to get interesting. The only problem with talking about hobbies & passions is that you'll need to relinquish it, especially when moving forward in the sexualization phase.

Then you can grab it again once you're in the closing stage and use the excuse of having a mutual hobby to do something together.

Now it’s time for the last tips that will complete your conversations arsenal.

Tinder Topic #5: Future Dreams

One of the things that girls like to talk about the most is their fantasies about their future.

This includes talking about ideal future relationships, dream home, the city where they’d like to live.

Moreover, you can talk about her future career projects, travel desires, and anything else that runs in her fantasy.

I usually entertain girls by sharing my life projects that are in line with their values. Then I let them speak about what they like.

This makes us daydream together and build more comfort by finding shared opinions.

Moreover, making her talk about her future projects will help you assess if she can be the right girl for you or not.

And The Story Ends like this

Talkative as a Comedian

In the end, after realizing that there were some proven ways to have interesting conversations with girls, my dating life totally changed.

In fact, I managed to attract more and higher quality girls than before. This happened because once I made them open up, it was much easier to get them into the seduction stage.

That also helped me realize how important it is to get to know a girl to have more fun during the interaction itself.

Now you can do the same knowing what you know, my friend.

Bonus Tip!

Make a girl laugh and she'll be yours.

How to Make a Girl Laugh Over Text

Before you go, you must learn how to make a girl laugh over text, especially since you want to have better conversations with them.

In fact, when talking with a girl over text, you shouldn’t only focus on the topics but also your interaction quality.

That’s what will make her remember how good it can be talking to you.

Humor Adaptation

The best way to make a girl laugh over text is by adapting your humor style to hers.


Because every girl has her own set of beliefs and values and will get triggered by different things at different times, I teach in my Integral Text Game Course.

That’s what will make her laugh consistently, apart from making her connect with you even more.

If you want to know more about how to make a girl laugh over text, check this article out.

Wizard Takeaway

To make a conversation intense you shouldn’t focus on the quantity of topics but on their quality.

Now you know what to talk about on Tinder.

Have fun talking to the girls you like!

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