For the most part of my life, I've been a shy and insecure guy struggling with low self esteem. Imagine that I had trouble speaking in front of my friends and family, let alone girls.

I felt emasculated, awkward and like a loser. For this reason women ignored and rejected me, so I had nothing to do but spend much of my teenage years alone.

More than this I wanted to feel confident, attractive and have high self-esteem so that I could go talk to any woman I liked, anywhere, anytime.

I had tried many ways to attract women. Being nice to them, treating them well, making them feel special. I subscribed to the gym to build muscles, got cover magazine outfits to make myself more attractive but this didn't work. 

The first moment of change when a blondie I had a crush on told me she’d prefer to die rather than sleep with me. I knew that path was not working.

That made me go to online forums to learn how to attract girls. That's where I learned about cold approaching as some guys were reporting to have success with their stories. This motivated me to start approaching too.

We started to leave our comfort zones to become better social players. I learned NLP techniques, public speaking, body language, positive thinking and other tools that supposedly helped me become more attractive.

I wasn't getting much results and I thought it was because I lived in a medium-sized city. So I went to places where it was easy to get laid like Rome, Ibiza and Barcelona to test those techniques there.

After approaching more than 5000 women in 7 years I felt something was off as I always had troubles finalizing, like there was a hidden force preventing me from getting success. 

It felt like I was investing 10,000 dollars to only get back 5,000. Women were hooked but never truly attracted to me. 

Seduction Techniques = Failure! 

Those seduction techniques made me look more like a robot. This eventually made my performance worse as I was always in my head and women noticed this internal lack of confidence, which got me more painful rejections. 

I knew that if I didn't find out a system that worked, I wouldn't have a girlfriend I would have felt like shit. I clearly saw in my mind two different versions of myself. One was happy, masculine, with girls around and inner confidence.

The other was shy, insecure, alone at home, not having a wife and family, feeling like the scum of society. This options felt horrible and I began to feel hopeless.

I didn't want to end up like the latter as I felt a dreaded sensation in my gut. 

Then the pain this image brought me in my gut transformed in ambition. The ambition to finally do something about my dating life. This new fire helped me burn the ice cold fear I felt and get back on track. 

My Barcelona Experience

Coincidentally, through a Facebook group, I met a guy in Barcelona who was also into approaching women. 

He had recently been in a bootcamp to learn how to attract women naturally and authentically without any seduction technique.

He told me that the secret to success was not in the techniques and mental strategies but developing those authentic inner attractive qualities through changing ones negative and limiting beliefs. In short I needed to work more on my self-image before attempting to approach.

At first I didn't believe his words and dismissed those concepts as woo woo stuff.  

Then one night, after having approached hundreds of women for an entire week in Barcelona and still seeing no results using those seduction techniques I felt desperate. 

“What’s wrong with me?” I thought. After that fruitless night I went back home, jumped on my bed and started looking at the ceiling with barren eyes. After having spent so much time approaching women why am I still getting no results? 

The Turning Point

I could hold it no more and bursted into tears. 

However in the midst of desperation I felt like a light bulb had turn on in my mind. That was the moment of change. 

I had seen for the first time in years what I was holding in my subconscious mind. A ton of negative beliefs like “I’m not worthy of women” or “I’m not enough” started to pop up out of the blackness of the subconscious. 

Then I understood why I was not getting results. I had been sabotaging myself until now because of those hidden beliefs. 

I had fears of being inadequate, inferiority complexes and a series of traumas that stemmed as far as my childhood.

My friend was right I was not being authentic with those seduction techniques and that was one of the causes behind

The subconscious mind holds the keys to our life experiences, positive or negative. That’s why the root cause is to be found there as our beliefs create our reality. 

Changing My Negative Beliefs

I realized that I was approaching women from the wrong self image and mindset. The self image of a loser and insecure guy. 

Fundamentally I had changed my external behavior by learning those seduction techniques but my internal program and software was still as old as when I was a child, the same software program full of bugs, traumas and bad programming. 

I knew that all the bullshit I had in my subconscious mind, the hidden negative beliefs and programs were the cause behind my failures and self sabotage.

Until I removed this program from my mind, I would never experience a different reality. I was unconsciously run by my negative subconscious programs.

Then I realized that the secret to success was not in the number of approaches I made but on the energy and presence I showed in those approaches.

The subconscious program, energy and vibe was the secret behind success with women. Without the right energy and beliefs one is never able to attract them. 

The things is that those beliefs are hard to find because they are stored as traumas in our subconscious mind. 

How could I uncover them? That’s what I did later. 

My Alchemy Attraction System

That's when I decided to craft a complete new system to attract women naturally. 

A system that would help regular men by changing their subconscious negative programming and give them the right beliefs to be successful in life. In a few words the science of inner transformation applied to dating. 

Becoming an authentic man aligning the conscious, subconscious and superconscious mind to reach one thing, success without any self-sabotage.

You Can Transform Your Dating Life In Just 12 Weeks

That way they saved years of pain and fruitless hard work like I did in the past when I didn’t know all of that.

Eventually, I managed to get many experiences with many beautiful girls and even models from different parts of the world. 

Now I'm in a happy and stable relationship with a beautiful and loyal girlfriend. 

The best part, however, is that I transformed from a shy and insecure guy to a confident, attractive man feeling enough and happy with his dating and personal life.

I ironically became a dating coach, turning my passion into my business, life purpose, and mission while living a free life and helping other men experience the same transformations.

Now it's time you experience the same results.

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May you live your life to the fullest,

Coach Sal Damiata