How to Compliment a Girl Through Text: 7 Powerful Lines That Make Her Blush

This compliment will give you lots of credibility while making her feel like an attractive girl. The first part of it, "I don't usually say this," serves to reinforce the idea that you don't usually give compliments for free.

This will make her perceive your compliment as more valuable. A consequential effect of this is that she'll become more receptive to the same praise as well as to your future compliments. 

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Important Note: You must keep using the "exclusive compliments strategy" until the end. Otherwise she'll perceive incongruence in your behavior.

Compliment #5: I like something about you but I don’t know what it is

That’s a twist of the previous opener, more explicit thanks to the word “like” yet even more mysterious because you say, “I don’t know what it is.”

This opener will make girls tremendously curious to know what’s going on in your mind. They’ll be so interested that you can expect them to ask you 200 questions in a row, like in the case below.

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I know answering all those questions will be a daunting task, but what can we do, my friend! Girls become very tender creatures when it comes to their beauty.

Treat her like a little puppy, and she’ll be loyal to you.

Compliment #6: I fell in love with your mind and... butt.

Not all compliments have to look smart. Sometimes something fun and sexually provocative, like in this case, will make you go a long way.

You can use this compliment not only to make her feel good but also to smoothly transition into a more sexual conversation without looking like a creep.

You’ll seem like a man that cares about her personality and, of course, about her looks too. That’s the sweet spot to lie in that will make her feel a contrasting but positive feeling at the end. 

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Important Note: Don’t use this opener right away as it would look incongruent to talk about her mind if the only thing you’ve seen so far is her butt.

Now it’s time to learn the last compliments that will make her go: “Wow. This guy really knows how to talk to a girl.”

Compliment #7: You’re sexy even when you don’t try

Wow, wow, wow!

"You're sexy even when you don't try" is one of the most cliche compliments that you can tell a girl, so why did I put it here?

Because what matters the most is the context where you use your compliment, not necessarily the praise itself.

That's why something like this can produce quite excellent results if used with the right girl at the right time.

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As you can see, she was flattered by it. I'm wondering how sexy she'd be when she tries to.

How to Know When’s The Right Time to Compliment Her

What if you have the right compliments to say like those above, but you don’t know if it’s the right time to tell them?

The solution to this problem is very simple. 

You have to realize that a girl is always ready to receive a compliment from a man. In fact, that’s what she expects deep down.

However…

If you compliment her too soon, she will infer that if you give your compliments for free to her just because she’s attractive, that’s what you’ll do with other girls too. 

She’ll feel too appreciated, and you’ll lose value in her eyes.

On the other hand, if the time to give her a compliment is already there, but you don’t provide it to her, you lose the opportunity window. In that case, she won’t feel appreciated enough.

That’s why you must start dosing your compliments by following your intuition and her response. 

As a rule of thumb:

• You’ll know you’re doing too little when she’s over-excited by your compliments.

• You’ll know you’re doing too much when she’s no more excited by your compliments.

That’s why you must start with a compliment test to see how she reacts. Don’t do it too soon anyway, as that’s what most men fail with. Let her earn your compliments by making her personality reveal.

3 Steps to Move From Compliments to Solid Dates

Thanks, Sal. The compliments have been working wonders, but how do I bring her on a date? Thanks for your question, dear reader!

To get on a date with her, follow the 3 steps below:

1. Compliment/Tease 

2. Sexualize Conversation

3. Close

1: Compliment/Tease

First of all, start by dropping one of the compliments of your choice or, alternatively, tease her over text to get the ball rolling. This will move the waters and shake her up for what’s about to come. 

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She accepted the compliment and is ready for the next phase.

2: Sexualize Conversation

Once you have made her feel comfortable, it’s time to inject some sexual lines into the conversation. This will create more intimacy between you and her and make it more likely for you to land a solid date.

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As you can see, the gas has been turned on.

3: Close

Finally, stop talking about intimate stuff before it’s too late and propose that she do something in person. After all, that’s where the magic will happen. You might transition from a sexualizing line to a smooth close to close effectively, like in the example below.

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1 Powerful Flirty Question to Ask Her Over Text

Want to know how to flirt over text without looking needy? Try sending her this flirty question that will get things moving.

The Question

“Do you like more giving or receiving?”

This teasing line is so powerful that 90%+ of girls will be stimulated when you drop it. It plays on the double-meaning idea of giving and receiving that can be interpreted both in a non-sexual and sexual way.

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As you can see, it made her open up more to intimate topics. Then I went for a compliment that was dropped at the right time because the terrain was fertile.

Unconditional Compliment

In the end, I understood that girls liked to receive compliments from men. Most of them reject men complimenting them because they do so from a needy place, seeking approval all the time.

That’s not a genuine compliment that will get you liked and make your result more attractive but only a manipulation attempt to get a favor from the girl.

I was guilty of that; that’s why my compliments didn’t work. As soon as I started changing my approach, I realized that girls were beginning to like my honest compliments, even when I was being very explicit. That’s what I teach in my Integral Text Game Course, by the way.

At least I was real, and honesty is a vital attraction signal for virtually any woman. Needless to say that this boosted my text game so much that 9 girls out of 10 reacted positively to the compliments I gave them.

Bonus Compliment: Lately I thought that all girls were stupid but you changed my mind

Let’s face it.

Most girls out there seem like they went to college together with hens.

It’s so rare to meet one that distinguishes herself from all the others that this compliment will make her feel veeeeery good.

She’ll intuitively understand that by “stupid,” you probably referred to those “sluatty” behaviors that girls have nowadays.

This will make her feel less of a “sluat” and more of a good girl, at least in your eyes. What will happen in the bed will just be your little secret.