Maybe you’ve been chatting with an attractive girl for some time and, before pushing out your arsenal, you’d like to know if she likes you.
Or, perhaps, you want to know this for personal curiosity, so that when the occasion comes, you’ll know what to do.
I know how you’re feeling. In my past, I didn’t feel confident escalating with girls unless I had some kind of certainty that they already liked me.
Now, in this article, you won’t learn the typical advice saying: “If she keeps texting you, it means she likes you!”
That’s what some online dating websites propose. However, that’s completely false from what I learned from my personal experience.
What if there are better ways to understand if she likes you?
That’s what you’ll learn in this article, along with what’s outlined below.
What You'll Learn
It's the day you decide to give it a try with that girl you liked. You start texting her, and you exchange a couple of lines together.
At a certain point, you start asking yourself if she really likes you or if she's just texting because she has nothing else better to do.
You are not sure about what cues a woman gives to prove her attraction towards a man, especially over text.
That's why you started your online search until you landed on this article.
That's Not a Love Story.
When I Misinterpreted Sexual Invitations with Friendship Attempts
That reminds me of when I spoke to women but didn't know when they started to like me.
Long back, I didn't have the experience, intuition, and knowledge I have today to understand women's behavior.
Most of the time, I misinterpreted a girl interested in me for not being such and vice-versa.
This made me lose tons of opportunities not to talk about all the times I looked like a fool when I sexualized conversations with girls that didn't care about me.
At one point, I realized that I had to learn something about women's psychology, or I would have continued on that loser path.
So I started my research until I came to fascinating conclusions. The attraction patterns from women were beginning to become clear in my mind.
Let’s talk about this later. For now it’s time to reveal you the 5 things a girls always does with a man she likes.
Revelation #1: She Asks You Those 3 Questions
When a girl asks you some questions, it’s very likely she likes you. Does this mean that every question she asks is a way for her to tell she likes you? Not really.
A girl needs to ask you some particular questions to reveal her intentions. A simple “How are you,” “What are you doing today.” or “Do you like chocolate won’t mean much.”
Indeed, the questions she asks you when she’s interested belong to some specific domains.
What are those questions?
1: “What do you do for a living?”
That’s one of the first questions she’ll ask you when her gut tells her you could be a good option for her.
This is because women are very status conscious and have always been wary of the economic situation of a potential partner.
If you want to have sex with the girl once, you can lie about your profession and say you’re a self-made millionaire.
Otherwise, you can work to improve your status and get more attention from women. (better option)
2: “What hobbies do you have”?
Girls often ask this question to imagine better how life would be if they’d get in a relationship with you.
Please, share whatever hobby you might have but if you do like milking cows, never tell her unless she’s a zoophile.
3: “Are you single?”
That’s by far the most common question they ask when they see potential in you from my personal experience. Of course, most girls don’t like hitting up on taken men, even if they’d like to.
To answer this question in the best way, don’t just say yes. Tell her a funny story of you looking for your princess or something like that. That will be much more intriguing to her.
Tip #2: She Submits Herself
That’s another excellent tell to look out for. Many girls won’t submit psychologically to a man they don’t admire or desire.
This psychological submission usually comes in many ways. One of those is laughing at your jokes, even when they’re not funny.
Another thing she might do is asking you for advice on something where you’re not necessarily competent. Usually, they ask where to spend the night, what clothes to wear, etc.
When you see that she’s looking upon you as an authority of something, take responsibility, and provide her with the security she expects from you.
You already learned a couple of interesting skills. If I only knew this upcoming revelation 5 years ago, I would have gotten much more results with online dating.
I've been on so many blind dates, I should get a free dog.
Not really tried blind dates but surely a dog always helps with girls.
Revelation #3: She Plays with You
When you tease or play with a girl, and she likes you back, she won’t refrain herself from expressing the child within her.
This happens because a man she truly likes will make her feel comfortable, stable, and protected. At this point, women become very childish and might seem like they’re 7 years old to you.
That’s precisely the moment when you can say that they like you. What should you do when she starts to play with you?
At this point, all you have to do is keep playing with them and then transition the conversation into something more sexual.
Look at this example for reference.
Revelation #4: She Hints to Some Activities
This usually happens after you talked to her for some time and after she’s got to know you better.
From my experience, girls won’t necessarily invite you to date with them, as they expect you to make this first move.
However, they’ll hint at something that’s socially related.
For instance, she might ask you something like:
- “What plans do you have for the weekend?”
- “Do you like going to the cinema?”
- “Have you ever been to the new shopping mall they opened?”
- “Do you like going into nature?”
- “Have you tried that new chocolate shop?”
As you can probably notice, she doesn’t really care about knowing those things. All she’s saying most of the time is, “Invite me to such places with you.”
Never take what girls say literally. They always veil what they mean below other words.
I know this can be frustrating for us men, but that’s how they operate.
With what you learned, you should already have a good picture of what girls do when they like you. However, there are still some things to know about female psychology.
Keep reading to find it out.
Always have an interesting lifestyle where to invite Girls into.
Revelation #5: She Opens Up Emotionally
Finally, we have this typical behavior that women often do. When they feel you've earned their trust, they'll start to share more and more about themselves.
That's exactly when you know that they're comfortable with being vulnerable to you, an excellent sign.
This might come in the form of sharing personal stories, inner desires, problems, and conflicts she might have. Sometimes she will even tell you when she's on her period.
This behavior is also something that best female friends do. I know what you're thinking, you'd hate if a girl you like would behave in such a way with you.
To avoid this, sexualize the interaction before it's too late. Usually, you'll have some windows of opportunities to sexualize conversations.
As a rule of thumb, you shouldn't miss more than 3 of those opportunities. This means that at the third opportunity she gives you, you must go all-in, or she'll completely lose interest.
That used to happen a lot to me when I had to go for the kiss. But, Sal, we're talking about online dating here!
You should treat an online dating interaction exactly as you do with a live one, just that you will sexualize the interaction via text.
How The Story Ended
They Were Indeed Sexual Invitations
In the end, I learned that all the principles above weren’t friendzone attempts but ways for those girls to invite me to do something more.
However, I knew it didn’t satiate me, so I decided not to give up on my research. That’s when things got more complicated but exciting. In fact, I found out another curious behavior women adopt when they like you over text.
That is when she starts asking if you have a positive relationship with your parents, especially with your mom.
The first time a girl asked me this, I was puzzled. I didn’t know what kind of question this was. However, by making some connections to the psychology books I had gone through, I understood what this meant, as you’ll learn in the next point.
This girl eventually kept asking me any questions about my family. She is from France originally and grew up in a very conservative family.
Seeing me from the south of Italy, where things are a little bit out of control, she was curious about how Sicily raised me. After gaining her trust, she finally opened up to me even more until she was comfortable enough to bring things further.
By saying you don't look for sex, you'll lower her psychological defenses.
Bonus Revelation: She Asks About Your Mom
Most women interested in you will ask about your family situation—specifically the relationship you have with your parents and your mom.
This happens because girls want to know your opinion of women. Generally, as children, we men get a generalized idea of how women are from our mothers, and females get it from their fathers.
That’s why the mother generally constitutes the ideal kind of woman of a man that’s been raised healthily. The father instead constitutes the perfect kind of man for a female that’s been raised well.
Women want to ask about your relationship with your mother to know how a potential relationship with a woman can be. They do this unconsciously; I don’t think they read 100 dating books.
Of course, there are also other things that women do when they’re attracted to a man. That’s what I teach in my Integral Text Game Course, by the way.
Women rarely tell you that they like you, unless they’re confident enough to express themselves.
All the rest must be understood by you so follow your gut and you’ll be successful.
Now you know enough about what women do when they like a man, or maybe not?
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