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I understand. In fact, who wouldn’t want to have things that easy?
However, unless you know how to talk to girls the right way, they won’t invite you over like that.
In this article, I won’t tell you that to have sex dates with Tinder, you have to upgrade it to gold or send girls standard pick-up lines.
Having the right line handy or being a paid member will help. However, that won’t work as you desire unless some other elements are in place.
What if there are better ways to get easy and consistent sex dates on Tinder?
That’s what you’ll learn in this article, and much more, as you can see below.
In This Article You'll Learn
What you’re about to learn will help you have so much sex dates with Tinder that you might be called the new Rasputin.
A few time has passed since the last time you had sex with a girl.
That makes you feel so horny today that you felt like swiping right to every girl you possibly could, hoping that she invites you over to make you drain your footballs.
In fact, you’d prefer having a real girl by your side instead of using your magic hand.
You start contacting your Tinder matches and talking to them about hot topics already.
However, you see that not every girl is as willing as you are to cook your sausage.
That’s why you start to lose control and send them lines like those.
That gets you unmatched, leaving your mouth without the taste of the puassycat you wanted to eat.
That's Not a Love Story
No Sex for Weeks
That reminds me of the troubles I was facing back in the days when I was a failure on Tinder.
In fact, I couldn't get laid as much as I wanted, and this frustrated me.
During a period where I had no friends with benefits, I remember that I desperately needed to have a girl with which to release weekly.
That's what I was trying to do with my Tinder, but it didn't work. Eventually, my frustration grew so much that I decided to fix my situation once forever.
I began by testing various types of profiles with different kinds of girls worldwide, thanks to my Tinder passport.
I then created various profiles: the typical alpha male profile, the businessman, the bad boy, and the intellectual guy to see which one performed best to get me the one night stands that I wanted.
The profiles were different in pictures, bio, and attitude when texting girls.
In the beginning, I didn't see much difference in the results; however, after getting more matches and same-day dates, things started to change.
At the time, I had crafted my profile in a specific way. I'll tell you about this in a moment; for now, let's talk about how to set your profile so that you can get laid as you want.Important Note: Read the article carefully; there's a special attraction tip hidden inside.
Tinder for Sex Tip #1: Upload The Right Tinder Pictures
If you’re not managing to get sex through Tinder could be because of wrong picture choices.
That’s why your success at getting laid today starts with uploading the right type of content that will attract exactly the girl you want.
Indeed, if you want to use Tinder just to get randomly laid, you should upload pictures that show specific qualities of you.
Those are the following:
- Honesty Signals
- Social Status
This term refers to all those physical and behavioral traits that a man shows and carries out to establish his dominance.
Dominance is a very attractive quality for women because a dominant man usually provides her with more security and resources.
In the past, dominance was expressed by displaying certain body features like ornaments and size.
That’s precisely what in the dating world is called peacocking, or the art of showing honesty signals to attract a female.
Look at this example.
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As you can see, this man below uses his ornaments to display that he’s of higher status.
That’s the first thing you should do with your profile if you want to attract more and better girls.
It's a hard business this dating business! Love is complicated!
Not sure it's the same but... ok!
Girls are very crazy creatures sometimes. In fact, understanding why they behave in a certain way with men is understandable either with life experience or through research on evolutionary psychology.
If you want to maximize your chances of being used as a toy in bed, your best bet is to base the entirety of your game on boosting your social value.
This means displaying signals in your pictures that you have a high enough social position to be a good provider for her.
Such signals include having lots of friends and holding a high enough position in the dominance hierarchy.
How can you show this?
Simply putting pictures where you’re placed at the center of the game and looking like you’re a man people defer to will get the job done.
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Finally, your pictures should also show that girls have already selected you as a sexual partner.
This is one of the most powerful attraction signals you can ever use to gain social points and get the highest quality girls.
It’s crucial that when showing preselection, you don’t do it in a blatantly obvious way. This will be considered a low-value behavior from girls and will make you lose points.
Instead, you should show that girls are interested in you but in the most spontaneous way possible.
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That’s what will make them see that you’re the real deal.
We’re just scratching the surface here. Keep reading to find out more on how to have sex with your tinder profile. In the next step, we will make you craft the perfect bio you need to attract women for a one night stand.
Tinder for Sex Tip #2: Crafting the Perfect Bio
Ever thought that your bio could make the difference between you getting laid and getting a rejection?
That’s it, and this is explainable because girls are very attentive to what a man writes on his online dating profile.
The reason is that women need to know more about a man apart from his looks. Indeed, from an evolutionary perspective, a girl needs to see a man’s track record more than his biceps (or banana) size.
Even if those things could relatively matter, the reality is that women will be more attracted when feeling that a man is a suitable partner to raise their children.
Those are not features seen in pictures. Now, without getting too scientific, let’s make some examples of a bio that works and one that doesn’t.
The Failure Bio
“My friends call me jack skeleton because I used to scare people away with my pranks.
Today could be my lucky day if you happen to love Disney movies.
I want to play the beauty and the beast with an interesting girl.”
A Perfect Sex Bio
Since you’re probably looking for random sex, all you have to do is write a bio that supports your profile and doesn’t show too much weight on commitment.
I know that’s obvious, but many guys still put on bios based on entirely other things than what they want to get with girls.
First of all, make your bio lighthearted. This will relieve the pressure and make things seem less important than they are.
Teasing & Challenging
Secondly, your picture should contain a teasing element. That’s what will spark girls' emotions and make them see that you’re a guy on the edge of adventure.
How can you write such a bio? Take inspiration from this one below.
Writing a good bio is more important than you think.
Tinder for Sex Tip #3: Pre-Suasive Openers
Now that you have your pictures and bio in place, it’s time to learn how to start a conversation in a way that directs it towards your sex goal.
Of course, there are specific openers that will get this job done. I called them pre-suasive openers based on Robert Cialdini’s book “Pre-Suasion.”
Those openers are based on the concept of preparing a person’s mind to your future offer by smoothly making him resonate with something related to your offer.
In a few words, this means getting her to think about sex with you if that’s what you want to get.
Here’s a list of 3 pre-suasive openers you can use with any girl to convince her about sleeping with you the same night.
The Movie Recall
Fun Experience Opener
Life’s Short Reminder
Starting your conversation this way will make girls prepare themselves mentally to sleep with you the same day.
Now it’s time for the last tips that will fine-tune your profile to go straight to your dating goals.
Now you started the conversation in the best way possible with a strong profile that backs up your sex intention; it’s time to talk to her so that she wants to have a date with you.
This is done in 3 phases that we’re going to talk about in a second.
Tinder for Sex Tip #4: Make Her Laugh
Making a girl laugh is fundamental to increase your success chances of bringing her out on a sex date the same day.
That’s because making her laugh will make a girl release dopamine that will lower her stress (cortisol) levels.
This will shut down her rational brain and make her more likely to say yes than no. However, the common question is: “How can I make a girl laugh over text?” In this article, you’ll find all the answers you need.
Make sure to make her laugh genuinely between 3-5 times before moving into the next phase. That’s when you’ll start to direct the interaction to something sexual.
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Besides making you more successful with girls, making them laugh will also transform your interaction into a more pleasurable one.
Tinder for Sex Tip #5: Tease & Sexualize
Now you've built enough momentum to move forward in this phase. If you did your job well, you probably know what type of girl you're talking with.
Now all you have to do is tease her and then sexualize the conversation.
Why is that important?
Teasing a girl is fundamental to provoke the emotional spike she needs to feel attracted to a man.
Teasing a girl shows her that you're confident at putting her down in a funny way, without being afraid of losing her.
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That's an extremely attractive feature that women crave in their ideal man. In fact, this shows complete non-neediness from your side.
After the tease, the interaction needs to be sexualized; otherwise, the only date you'll have today will be with your hand.
That's because you can't expect a girl to want to sleep with you the same night if you don't inject a sexual vibe during the conversation.
Many men lose countless golden opportunities just because they don't have the habit of being a little bit spicier when they relate to a girl.
Don't be afraid of showing her how much you desire her. If she's open-minded enough, you might also want to have some sexting to warm things up before meeting her.
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This will make her desire skyrocket over the roof if you're good at making her horny over text. However, if you think you need to improve something, check this article I've written on the best flirty questions to ask over text.
After completing this stage, you'll be only one step closer to your sex date.
And The Story Ends like this
One Night Stands & More
In the end, after having fixed my profile according to the principles you just learned about, my results with girls changed so much that I couldn’t believe that happened.
I went from having sparse one-night stands (usually from cold approaching) to organizing dates at girls’ houses (or to my place) more than 3 times a week.
Needless to say, I only liked this lifestyle for 4-5 weeks as it got too exhausting after some time. However, it helped me move forward in life, and it might help you find out what you want from women.
Here are some screens of those hot convos I had with various girls.
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Better to close her to your place sometimes.
Bonus Tip: Closing Her to Your Place
Now you’ve been talking dirty to her, and you even made her horny enough to have the right momentum to bring things forward.
That’s the perfect time for you to give the final shot and make your girl come on a date with you today.
How can you effectively transition to a solid date after the sexualizing phase?
In this post, I’ve written various ways to close a girl to date.
However, in this particular case, the best things are two:
Being direct (hard close)
Creating a narrative erotic roleplay (smooth close)
Being direct will just seem like a normal closure, as you can see in the example below.
She will agree if she has been warmed up appropriately before.
Instead, a narrative erotic roleplay close will lead you to the date as a natural consequence of talking dirty.
In my opinion, that’s the best thing to do as it will make her seem like things are happening spontaneously.
That’s what I teach in my Integral Text Game Course, by the way.
With a strong desire to have a one night stand, the correct strategy and attitude, you can have enough Tinder sex dates to sstisfy your desires.
Now you know how to get a Tinder sex date.
Have a nice one and always protect yourself 😉