Probably you’re chatting with a girl you like, and you want to meet her in person. After all, sexting isn’t as funny as making two bodies cum… ehm come together.

I totally understand this as I also got tired of texting girls after some time.

However, unless you learn the right way to close on a date, you will miss many great opportunities with those girls waiting for you.

In this article, I won’t teach you the clichè way to ask her out, like this: 

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“If I were to ask you out on a date, would your answer be the same as the answer to this question?”

Those lines are for newbies. Here in Attraction Truth, we do things differently.

What if there are better ways to make her wanna go out with you?

That’s what you’ll learn in this article, along with what’s outlined below.

In This Article You'll Learn

    7 Copy-Paste Lines to Ask Her Out;
  • The 3 Steps Process Before Inviting Her on a Date;
  • How to Make Her Invite YOU Out;
  • How to Know if She’s Ready for a Date;
  • 1 Compliment to Tell Her Before Asking Her Out
  • Extra bonus tips;
Difficulty: Easy

This article will help you bring girls around like cats on a leash.

Typical Scenario

You’re texting a girl you like, and things seem to be going decently well.

You play with her, she plays with you.

You tease her, and she teases you back.

You compliment her, and she blushes.

Everything seems to be going just fine. However, there’s ONE THING separating you from having one of the best dates in your life: The Closing Stage.

This insidious stage in the courtship process haunts many men worldwide, from the east to the west.

You realize that you need to uplevel your closing game; that’s why you’re here.

That's Not a Love Story.

The Fluffy Guy

I’ve always been shy when it came to asking girls out. In fact, I was usually called “fluffy guy” by girls as they noticed that I didn’t bring them on a date.

Apart from the fear that I had long back of going on dates with new girls, there was a significant incompetence element that kept me in the same spot. 

Indeed the few times I dared to ask girls out, I did it like that.

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As you probably know, that’s not how it is done, and luckily I realized that too. This brought me to learn once forever how to close girls like a pro. 

The results?

Let’s talk about them later, for now it’s time to teach you how to close girls like a pro.

Important Note: Read the article carefully; there’s a special attraction tip hidden inside.

How To Ask a Girl Out Over Text?

The simple answer is that there’s no unique way to ask a girl out. Every lady is different, and your approach must be calibrated to each one of them, depending on 3 main variables:

  1. Context

  2. Girl Types

  3. Attraction Level

Only after having considered those aspects, you’ll be able to assess what to ask her. We’ll go into more detail about those aspects later. 

Let’s now go over the different closing styles you can use to ask girls out.

#1: Ask Her Out Through Topic Correlation

One of the easiest ways to invite a girl to date is by gradually shifting the conversation into a concrete plan of what you’re talking about.

Look at the example below.

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As you can see above, I naturally shifted the conversation from a fluffy topic to a solid one that eventually brought us to arrange a date.

If you think about it, that’s how you usually organize random things with your friends. Maybe you talk about something vaguely. Then the idea becomes more consolidated until it takes shape and is brought to reality.

Suppose you have a chilled out conversation with girls and take responsibility to make it happen. In that case, it will happen most of the time, my promise.

#2: Ask Her Out Indirectly 

If you want to be smoother with your closing style, you can go for an indirect one. In that case, you can say to her that you’re going somewhere and that you’d like to have somebody to bring in.

Look at the example below.

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I randomly spoke about going somewhere and that it would have been good to go there with somebody. She understood and proposed to go together. 

Important Note: That’s not the best way to ask her out, in my opinion. You might indeed come off as lacking confidence and nuts.

Moreover, it DOESN’T ALWAYS WORK as you’re putting the responsibility on the girl now to make a move. This might make girls ghost you like there’s no tomorrow.

Use this only if you can’t really do otherwise. However, read the other closing techniques below, as we’re just scratching the surface here. The next ones are going to be very powerful.

How to Ask a Girl Out Over Text Like a Pro: 5 Strategies that Always Work + Examples

Graham Norton

I'm often dating people, but I don't say it because you sort of know it won't last long.

Relationship Stamina 2.0

#4: Ask Her Out The Direct Way

Tired of losing time with more complex closing methods? 


There’s no need to be complicated sometimes because the terrain might already be fertile for you to ask her out, like in the example below.

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Since we had already built enough comfort beforehand, she felt ready to say yes to me. 

“How’s that possible?” You might think.

Is it that simple to ask a girl out? Yes, my friend. However, you must go through the stages we spoke about before to make it happen. Let’s see them now, and then I’ll teach you other powerful closing styles.

How to Ask a Girl Out Over Text Like a Pro: 5 Strategies that Always Work + Examples

The 3 Steps Process Before Inviting Her on a Date

If you want to maximize your closing rate, you should follow the 3 steps process outlined below:

  1. Tease 

  2. Connect

  3. Close

As simple as it looks, this process is going to triple your closing success rate. 


You have to realize that women are much more emotional creatures than us men. For them, it’s not as easy as talking with a guy for 5 minutes to decide if he’s a good fit for her or not.

For that reason, many women need to talk, interact, and know more about a potential partner. Unless they’re looking for a one-night stand, of course. You’d still need to speak to her in a certain way to make that happen.

However, most women are there to find a long term partner or at least a friend with benefits. In that case, you must go through each of the stages above to secure your date with her. 

Let’s now explore them together:

1: The Teasing Stage

During this phase, you must make women feel as many emotions as possible because of their heightened influence under strong emotional states.

There are many ways with which you can tease a girl over text. One of the simplest is lowering her perceived status through the push & pull technique. However, there are many more ways with which you can do it. 

2: The Connection Stage

After you teased the girl, it’s time to strengthen your bond with her by creating a connection. That’s a crucial phase to go through as it will make the closing one much simpler. 

Do not skip this phase, or you might get very flaky dates. To connect with a girl, you can talk about your/her hobbies, shared interests, and much more as I teach in my Integral Text Game Course.

You can also share each other’s stories and future objectives to strengthen your connection. 

3: The Closing Stage

At this point, you should have a clear idea of what kind of girl you’re talking to. That’s when you can go for one of the closing ways you’ve just learned. 

In a moment, you’re about to learn other 2 closing strategies that will make almost any woman say “YES!”

follow the process and she'll be yours.

How to Know if She’s Ready for a Date?

When she wants you to bring her out, she will do one (or all) the things below:

  1. Hint to a date
  2. Indirectly invite you
  3. Ask what plans you have

1: Hint to a Date

That’s when she talks about something related to a date. For example, she might talk about: 

  • “How good it would be to go to Central Park on a Friday afternoon.”
  • “That museum she always wanted to visit but never went.”
  • “The new sushi restaurant she’s like to try on Saturday night.”

Why would she tell you this if she wasn’t interested in a date? Think twice; you’re almost there, bro.

2: Indirectly Invite You

In this case, she’ll just behave, as explained in tip #2, trying to make you understand that she wants you to come with her to a specific place/event.

3: Ask what plans you have

That’s another thing she always does when she’s intentioned to bring you out. When I get this asked, I realize she’s inquiring about my personal life to see if I have other girls to meet with. 

That’s when I know there’s a strong possibility that my closing attempt will do just fine. If girls ask you what plans you have, make sure to have something exciting to propose to them. 

Don’t look like your calendar is always empty. Build an interesting lifestyle and make her fit in between one of your weekly activities. She’ll be much more attracted this way.

Now it’s time to learn your 5th closing technique. 

#5: Hinting to Ask Her Out 

Another great way to get a date with her is to hint at the date. That’s a smoother way to go for the close that won’t seem as invasive as the direct approach.

When she sees that you’re gently making plans, she’ll feel more comfortable agreeing with you because of the foot in the door technique.

Look a the example below.

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As you can see, I’m not directly asking her to meet me but making vague plans about a possible date together. That serves as a first test to see how compliant she is going to be.

If she passes the compliance test, you can go on and make a vague proposal until it is accepted by her. Only then, go and propose for an actual date. 

Powerful strategy.

1 Compliment to Tell Her Before Asking Her Out

Wondering what to tell her before you ask her out? 

Indeed, saying, “you’re beautiful” will not be as effective as using other lines. 

Did you know that complimenting a girl through text is an art that must be practiced? 

You’re lucky today, as I’m going to reveal to you one of the strongest compliments to make her blush.

Are you ready?

The Compliment

“There’s something I like about you, but I don’t know what it is.”

The power of this compliment lies in its boldness yet mysterious vibe. It’s bold because you tell her directly that you like her; however, there’s that “something” that you don’t know what it is.

This will make most girls go crazy from the curiosity you’ll instill in them. Try it out and let me know how it goes.

How The Story Ended

Tripled Conversion Rates

In the end, I saw that by applying the 3 steps to close technique, I managed to get the attention of many more women than before. 

In fact, after being able to spark their emotions and connecting to them, the close always occurred as a natural consequence of the conversation.

That’s when I knew I had finally figured out a proven way to make girls say yes. The best part of this is that when they say yes to a date, they show up. Before, there was so much flakiness that it was a waste of time trying to close a girl to date.

Bonus Tip!

Roleplaying is always a good idea.

Bonus Tip: Ask Her Out Through Roleplay

One of the funniest ways to create a buildup that goes directly to a close is by playing games. In this case, deciding about two characters to play and making it happen until the date. 

Usually, the roleplaying game starts earlier in the conversation, during the teasing phase. That’s when you can choose your character and tease her based on it.

For example, you might play the Bad Wolf, and she plays the Little Red Riding Hood. Or you can play the Beast, and she plays Beauty.

As stupid as this might sound, that’s something that will work on most women, including mature ones!

After you’ve played the parts and gone through the connection phase, you might use the narrative game to ask for a date.

Look at the example below.

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“So, I think that it’s time for Diabokil to meet Eva; otherwise, the world will be conquered by the enemies.”

“Let’s meet on Saturday afternoon.”

That’s a pro-level closing move!

Wizard Takeaway

If you can warmup girls to the right temperature, they’ll almost always say yes to you.

Now you know how to ask a girl out like a pro.

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