Maybe you’ve been chatting with a girl you really like, but she disappeared without any reason after exchanging some lines.
Or perhaps you’ve just been talking to many girls, and most of them disappeared after some time.
In this article, I won’t just give you some random numbers within which you must respond to her, like 1 hour, 5 days, or 3 weeks.
What if there are better ways to re-engage your conversation with girls? That’s what you’ll learn in this article, along with what’s outlined below.
What You'll Learn
That will help you re-engage conversations with girls even if you’ve been left alone with your phone a BILLION times.
Typical Scenario
It's one of those days when you'd like god had provided you with more patience. After exchanging some lines with a girl you like, she disappeared like a ghost into nothingness.
You start to feel anxious. Then anxiety transforms itself into a feeling of frustration until you feel so angry that you don't want to text this girl anymore.
However, on the other hand, you acknowledge that you really like her and that it would be a pity not to try another time.
That brought you to an online search for some pro tips on how to handle this situation until you found Attraction Truth's blog.
That's Not a Love Story.
Getting Brutally Ignored
That is pretty much what happened to me when I was a novice with dating. First of all, I didn’t know how to make conversations enjoyable with girls.
This brought me to send stupid messages like this.
I know. There’s nothing to be proud of when your only arsenal consists of dropping such stupid lines.
That obviously brought me to be rejected countless times by girls. However, what made me suffer the most was being brutally ignored by the girls I liked, especially after spending time with them.
That made me feel so frustrated that I had a hot fire burning within me that I decided to use productively to improve my dating skills.
By the way let's talk about this later. Now it’s time to give you some powerful stuff for your text game success.
Tip #1: Try to Understand Her Motives
The first wise thing to do when a girl doesn't answer you back is understanding what pushed her not to answer you.
Now, I understand that there might be many reasons why a girl doesn't answer. In fact, I've collected some to make men notice how some of those are entirely out of our control.
Give a look at this list:
- She's on her period and wants to kill everybody;
- She has met a guy that she likes more than you;
- She just found out she is lesbian;
- She simply forgot answering you;
- She lost her phone;
- Her best friend told her not to answer you;
- She's too lazy to answer you;
- She wants to test you;
- She is a dating coach and used you as a test just as I do with women;
- She died.
As I teach in my Alchemy Texting Domination Course, you will never know why she didn't text you back unless you ask her what was going on.
Even by asking, however, it's not guaranteed that she'll tell you what happened. That's why all you can do is accept what happened and think about a proper response to her.
Maybe she asked to tell her more about yourself and that didn't happen.
How long should you wait when she doesn’t text back?
The final answer is that there's no definite answer to how much time should pass before you text her back.
This depends on her motives mainly because if she doesn't really like you, it's useless to text her back even in a minute or 5 months. However, if she was having a bad time, then the situation is different.
Not knowing what happened, the best thing you can do is move on to a concrete solution that will make her want to talk to you again.
Tip #2: Prevent it from happening
Like in medicine, the most effective solution you can apply is preventing the girl from getting bored with you. That will avoid your rejection.
However, there are a couple of things that you should learn to put this into practice.
Let’s give a look at them now:
- Be Hard to Get;
- Make Her Laugh;
- Tease Her.
1: Be Hard to Get
One of the first things that make women reject guys as if they were rotten eggs is when they sell themselves too quickly.
One way to avoid this is by showing her that you have a value that you won’t easily give away. This will make her work more for you, making her more committed and excited at the same time.
Trust me that if you position yourself as a valuable man, she won’t ignore you anymore; unless it’s done to get your attention.
2: Make Her Laugh
There are so many boring men out there that girls will jump out of a chair like a crazy cat when they see a truly fun one.
That’s why you have to learn the art. It will come useful to you also when you are talking to girls in person.
How can you make a girl laugh? I wrote an extensive article about it here.
If you want a quick example, look at this.
That would make even the most serious woman laugh. Aha!
3: Tease Her
Suppose you’re flat, predictable, and repetitive with girls. In that case, you won’t manage to give them the emotional roller coaster they need to feel excited around you.
Women, being emotional creatures, want mainly to be stimulated in many ways by a man.
The broader the type of stimulation you can provide them, the better as they’ll remember the experience with much more intensity.
Teasing a girl over text is elementary.
Look at this example to get an idea of how to do it.
Those are the kind of messages that won’t make her bored of you.
We’re just scratching the surface here. Keep reading to find out the active techniques you can use to get her again excited to talk to you.
Orson Welles
If there hadn't been women we'd still be squatting in a cave eating raw meat, because we made civilization in order to impress our girlfriends.
What's wrong with squatting in a cave and eating raw meat?
Tip #3: Use Engagement Lines
Engagement lines work wonders when you have to get her attention back. Look at the example below.
[Insert Line]
A line like this always gets the job done.
What about this one?
[Insert Line]
Also this one is powerful.
Want more?
[Insert Line]
Now you have enough of them to put into practice.
The likelihood that she’ll answer to those lines is very high. Just make sure to know what to do after she answers you. Even if those are great lines (and you’ll find more of them in my Alchemy Texting Domination Course), you still have to make your part later.
I wouldn’t want her to ghost you for a second time.
Tip #4: Send a Picture
That’s another great solution I found when the engagement lines didn’t work. That’s because a picture can tell much more than what a line can.
Usually, I send girls pictures of me doing something cool, like in the examples below where I was in Barcelona hitting on another woman 😉
As you can see, the girl was immediately engaged back, even if she had ignored me for some time.
What pictures should you send to get their attention back?
- Pictures of you working;
- Photos of you performing some hobbies;
- Photos of you with friends having good times;
- Pictures of trips;
- Anything you believe is worth sharing.
If you have an Instagram account, you can clearly see with what pictures women react the most.
Then try to replicate them with ones you can share anytime you find yourself in this situation.
Now it’s time for the last tips, so keep reading to find them out.
Pictures speak more than words, use them wisely.
Tip #5: Send a Funny Gif
Everybody, I mean everybody, loves a good GIF.
That’s one of my last resorts when a girl stops answering me. Sending her a GIF is like saying: “Hello, I’m here!” without actually pushing things too much.
What gifs will work best?
Here’s a collection of my favorites for this specific case.
Gif #1:
Gif #2:
Gif #3:
As you can see, the results with those Gifs are better than one usually expects. What are you waiting for?
It’s time for you to take advantage of those too.
You learned many things about starting conversations with girls, however you’re still missing some of the most important tips. Keep reading to learn them.
How The Story Ended
From No Answer to Foreplay
In the end, my texting experience with those girls turned out to be so powerful that the majority of them started texting back to me.
That’s when I understood that there were various motives behind their disappearance. In fact, some of them didn’t answer me even after using those techniques.
However, a minority didn’t answer me because they had forgotten or because they weren’t in the right mood that day.
When I contacted those girls again, I managed to bring the interaction forward with many of them. I still remember one that had ignored me for 2 weeks, her name was Paola.
I came back with one of my openers, and she answered me. After that, I proceeded with my progression towards sexualizing and then closing her to a date.
We went on a date and spoke about how she ignored me and pissed me off. That’s when she revealed to me why she didn’t answer.
After the date, we went to her place where we put on a movie. We cuddled, kissed, and went even further by doing some foreplay. Unfortunately, she didn’t want to go on that night because she was on her period.
Eventually, she left the city where I lived. We still talk to each other sometimes, hope to give her the final hit one day.
Honesty can solve all your dating problems sometimes.
Bonus Tip!
Bonus Tip: The Honesty Way
The last resort that I often use is being honest. This usually doesn't work with every girl, but it is magnificent to re-establish the lost connection.
Usually, I go for something like this:
[Insert Honest Pic]
As you can see, it works really well when you find the right girls. Who are those?
Sensitive, authentic, and kind-hearted women are the best target for this honest approach. However, since they're hard to find, I wish you good luck!
As I also teach in my Integral Text Game Course, that's a great approach to building something meaningful.Wizard Takeaway
Women don’t always disappear because they’re not interested. Sometimes it was just a misinterpretation issue that can turn into cuddling and foreplay at her place.
Now you know how you can re-engage conversations with girls like a pro.
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